When I first began on my journey seeking a Russian Bride, I was just in awe at how gorgeous they were AND that they were still available… as I’m sure most Western men feel when they visit these Russian woman sites too. Yes, it was eye candy heaven and I loved every minute of it. They all shared the same typical profile too… “Looking for man my dreams! I cook, clean and shall be the good wife! I want family with the children… where is you, man my dreams?”

Seemed simple enough, as I fit the profile for most of the Russian women on there. And as I searched towards finding the perfect Anna Kournikova clone, thinking of how I would rescue her from the fallout of Communism, poverty and near starvation… she, in return, would think of me as her hero, love me forever and worship the ground I walk upon.  All because I sent her an email. Yes, pure poetry to her ears that somebody from the Western world wanted her more than a bottle of Stolichnaya Vodka!

And after 2 years of courtship through emails, I eventually found my perfect match… a petite, sweet, blonde Russian girl named Nadejda. Only 25 years old… old enough to know what love is and still young enough to fall for it! Yes, I am a lucky man and have been very fortunate. But in my quest towards marrying a Russian woman, I have learned the truth that separates MYTH from REALITY. Many Russian bride sites will likely argue with me on many points — but this is because they have to. After all, they need Western men to spend their American dollars, right? But I want to set the record straight. My article is not to tear down the Russian Bride sites, but rather to amuse and entertain you while being truthful… so I will speak the truth based on my experiences.

So what is MYTH and what is REALITY? Well, let’s see, shall we?

1) Myth: All Russian women are just as beautiful as Anna Kournikova. Sorry, but unless you’re Anna Kournikova, the closest you’re ever going to get with her looks is a photo. MOST (and yes, I do mean MOST) Russian girls are a 7 at best, being on a scale from 1-10. I grew up in Chicago, Los Angeles and Las Vegas, so maybe my opinion is a bit biased… but living here in Russia, I have yet to see the beautiful women as represented within the agency sites. Also, I once heard that Russian women supposedly age more gracefully than American women… yet another myth. Most Russian women over 30 look terrible and are very much overweight. I have met some American men here in Russia and they all laughed because they agreed… Russian women over 30 look like they’re 45.

2) Reality: Russian women are more family oriented. Completely true! Russian cultures are very family oriented, especially the women. My wife talks to her sister and mother daily, and holidays you can expect large family gatherings.

3) Myth: Russian women would do anything to come to America. Completely false. Most Russian women are actually very intimidated of the very thought of leaving their home country. Again, they are very family oriented and while they might be intrigued to live in America (or elsewhere), the vast majority of Russian women don’t care to live that far away from their family… UNLESS you are a millionaire and want to share your money with their family!  I mean, hey, we’re all human, right?  Heck, I’d gladly sell my brother for a penny — any takers?

4) Reality: Russian women love Western men. This is actually true. Many Russian women are intrigued by foreign men (especially western men) and find it sexy that you’re not from their country. Not to mention, many Russian men drink heavily and are alcoholics, which also plays into why so many Russian women seek relationships abroad.  I believe hygene also plays into their decision too — but I can’t be too sure.  Perhaps I should ask them why they keep pinching their nose?

5) Myth: Money doesn’t really matter to Russian women. This is only true if you’re wealthy — because only then does it NOT matter. Sorry fellas, but your $30K salary will only be fine to a Russian lady if you reside within a Russia village or Ukraine. Outside of that, these ladies have no desire to trade in their $200 monthly flat just to live with you in your really cool trailer! If you plan on marrying a Russian woman, you had better bring something to the table besides your charming personality.

6) Reality: Russian women are faithful and loyal. This is very true from what I have experienced. Many Russian women are faithful and loyal to the ones they love. They are extremely devoted.

7) Myth: Russian women are too poor and don’t have the internet. I want to clarify this right now… this is NOT true for the majority of Russian women. Most people have the internet, and if not from home, I can assure you they have it from work and often check their emails at work. This is a common ploy agencies use to have you pay more money to use their mail forwarding services.

Reality: Russian people are broke and their salaries are very low. The average Russian woman makes about $200 per month. However, their cost of living is very low here, so think of it as making around $600 per month in the US. Living in Russia has taught me that this country is LAZY and BROKE… notice I said broke, not poor. There is a huge difference. Africa is a poor nation, but not Russia. Many Russians are lazy because — well, in all honesty, they have no desire to work for pennies a day.  Who can blame them?

9) Myth: Russian women are scammers and only want your money. Not true at all. Most Russian women who scam for money on the web are not even women at all… they are men posing as women. If a Russian woman ever asks you for money, 9 times out of 10 it’s a man posing as a woman.

10) Reality: Russian women are very strong individuals. These women have been through a lot in this country, so do not make the mistake of thinking a Russian woman needs a man to SAVE her because they don’t make a lot of money. They WANT a man, but definitely don’t NEED one. The divorce rate is high in this country because Russian women don’t have a problem with leaving their husbands due to mistreatment. If you treat them right, they will stay with you forever… but disrespect them, and they will drop you like a bad habit and never look back.

These are just a few things I discovered along the way. Russian women can and do make wonderful wives, but in order for this to happen, a man must pursue this with great patience. It won’t happen in 3 months… but if you persist at it and stay in touch with one girl for long enough, then I assure you, it can happen as it did with me! Good luck!!

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It is undeniably true that Russian brides are extremely sexy, and marriage with them will assure long years of faithful companionship. But at the same time, you must remember that your Russian wife will remain attached to her family back home in her country. It will be a very good idea to get acquainted with her family at the earliest.

Russians are a very close society, with each person sharing freely with others around. This feeling of togetherness has been fostered by long years of strife, which Russia had to face. Ever since the Second World War, Russian economy has been in the doldrums, and in the nineties, Russia was almost totally shattered. Because of such political turmoil, Russian society has been affected. Such sense of security is making the Russians come more close to each other.

During the economically tough times in Russia, things were so rough that friends and family had to share food, bread and other essentials. Naturally, it was the women of the house who took the brunt of this type of pressure and helped the family get through. So you can be sure that the lovely Russian lady whose heart you desire, has learnt from her mother and her experience.

Russian women are very staunch believers in their own customs and traditions, and that makes them look up to the men they marry for support. It has been taught to them customarily that men are the life-support of the family. Actually, this concept has been fostered in them since childhood, and has been born out of insecurity. That also makes these women very close to their mothers, aunts and grandmothers, since they have lived through similar situations together.

But the very backward situation of Russia has made the woman very conscious about their money. They are very alert in paying bills on time, and hence will become very good housekeepers. Your marriage with a Russian bride will also see to it that your financial condition will improve, because they are very good at saving. However you will need to discuss family before with your future Russian bride before marriage. Ask her very delicately if all is well with her family. Ask her how she will cope with living away from her family after the marriage and migration to your country.

In most cases, Russian women will not want to break up with their families, even though they will be all too desirous of setting up their love nest with you. That is why you will need to ask about her mother and father in particular. You must find out if there is someone to look after them when your bride has moved out of their house. And if not, then what is the solution she is making for them, in case there is a health emergency, for example.

Many a time, Russian marriages to foreigners happen because the woman does not want to live in poverty-ridden Russia and hence decides to become a bride for a foreigner and move out of the country. Many women will even accept that they married only for the citizenship and a better lifestyle. But that does not mean at all that they will not love their husbands. Even if they have married and come to escape their own country’s conditions, they will be very dutiful and faithful after marriage. They will never let down the husband who gave them a better life.

Even today, Russian brides after marriage with a foreigner will not forget their parents back home. The bond will only grow fonder in absence. Russian women will remain dependent on her husband for earning a livelihood and other emotional support, but they will surely appreciate the husband to allow her to care for her own parents. In fact, she might also expect to send some portion of your money to her parents back home if they have no one else to look after them.

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The first and a principal cause – feminism. Women do not wish to be women, do not wish to look after itself, do not want, that men looked after them, and attention signs often perceive aggressively. Men want a normal family, children (yes, yes, for the western men children it is important, they love them, they are engaged in them, for them children – value, instead of a burden). Men want romanticism, love, to care of someone that of them cared. Men of the West (esteem their forums, discussions) complain for a long time that women prefer to spend a free time in bars, instead of in a family, they I prefer to start to think of the child, when it nearby 40 (and about a family it is frequent too). They are shipped in themselves and are materialistic.

Why girls from Russia?

Russian women are famous for that for them the family, children is important. They easy allow men to care of them, they can combine work and a family (or only a family to whom that is important), they good, careful mothers. Russian girls are famous for ability to watch themselves, to put on, be painted, all it without looking at all at the modest income. The average Russian girl, under statements of men from the West, looks at model level there. Men (them every year to become less) who would like to find the girl for 20-25 years come on Russian sites of acquaintances also is more younger, to whom that of them would be desirable to give birth to the child whom their previous American wife and has not given birth, to someone to feel again young, showing and opening this world for the wife. Many men come also on sites with Russian girls after in their environment the family where the wife is Russian comes across. They see love and care of this pair about each other and it inspires them on searches of their love in Russia too.

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Russian brides are the most popular type of mail order bride. However, when going into this type of market, there are most scams than honest deals. Many people turn to the Internet to find love. There are millions of online dating consultants and plenty of mail orders. However, how do you know that you are being scammed? Look for the following signs. If you can recognize any of them to your situation than you are most likely being scammed!

Well first, you should be caution with anyone online dating or brides. When you put your profile on site, you should let yourself go and place a picture online. Most of the time people only search pictures so if you’re serious, add a pic. If someone responses to your profile and claims to be in love at first sight, stand back.

There is no such thing, even if they do have a legitimate feeling about you, it’s not love! No one can fall in love to a profile. Next, think about the Russian’s picture. Did it look professional? If so, then don’t keep an interest because most Russian’s who are there for love or marriage, don’t get professional pics done. You should look at their income and guess their personality. If the picture contradicts, your impression of the woman, than it’s not the person or it’s a scam. You do have a possibility of getting an honest profile and done by professionals, but it won’t be model quality.

Once you get to know someone (a couple of responses), you should ask her to take a picture of herself in front of a landmark like the Kremlin or in her garden or something that will look like the Russian environment. You can possible trap the person early one by asking for more pictures. If the person is using pictures of someone else, she/he may forget what they sent you to begin with and then you can call them out if there are discrepancies.

Look at the letters; do they look like they are mass-produced? Is your name only placed in a couple places all the time? Also, pay attention to content. If you are never asked about your life, family, the city you live in and so on, then they aren’t interested in meeting you. Also, make your letters personally like your dog died or you took the long way home today and if you get no response to that than the letters are mass produced and it’s a scam. There are so many more things that you can pick out of the conversations or letters that will tell you it’s a scam. You shouldn’t allow yourself to be blind and specially look for some of these tips.

When it comes to Russian Brides, you must be careful and try to find any signs of a scam. It can be hard to judge someone whom you’ve become accustomed to lean on, but it must be done to protect your privacy, feelings, and bank account.

This internet world provides means for Russian girls looking for marriage online. There are many Russian dating websites that offer singles to find Russian girls for dating. Western men or American men seek Russian women for marriage from these dating online services. Russian women dating American men on a purpose to come to that country. We have seen many online Russian dating services booming on the Internet in the last few years. Many popular Russian dating web sites offer 100% free Russian dating services which help many online Russian singles to find love and romance without a fee. That’s wonderful, isn’t it? Some Russian dating services provide free membership for a limited time but some Russian dating sites offer free for a life time to the members. There are pay Russian dating services that were created long time ago and they charge members some fee a month. Big Russian dating services have the amount of joined members to two million and the number of members are going up. 

We can see how on line Russian singles and Russian personals like Russian dating services on the Net. The main purpose of online Russian dating services is to provide single men and single women to know each other on Net. Some Russian dating services focus on specific area, such as Northern America, UK, Russia, Asia, or Europe regions, and there are Russian dating services are world-wide. Single men and single girls can meet thru the on line Russian dating sites for friendship, relationships, or marriage. On line Russian singles, in a moment, can see other Russian personal ads in front of computer. Registering a profile takes a few minutes at these Russian dating sites and we recommend that you upload your photo to increase your chance in getting more attention from other members. The old saying said that one picture worth thousands words which is always true. When a member look at your photo, they will contact you right away if they are interested in your photo, without reading all the information you write on your profile. So, posting your profile with a picture or two photos increase your profile values. 

Usually, online Russian dating services have new members on the homepage, which have newest members with photos. Profiles without pictures are usually not displayed on the front page of these Russian dating web sites. Let us put it this way, when you search for a profile, you always look at profiles with pictures at these Russian online dating services. Statistics usually shows that profile with pictures are viewed much more than profile without pictures on these Russian on line dating services. Selecting the best online Russian dating services that matches your dating style is not easy. Some members use their photos that they took 20 years ago to post on the on line Russian dating sites to attract on line Russian singles. So, you sometimes get surprised when you meet some specific members in person. So, before make decision to meet that specific person that you know on these Russian dating sites, make sure you ask for their latest photos. Some on line Russian single dating services generate thousands of marriages a year. 

Russian girls for marriage is waiting to meet you. There are thousands of Russian women looking for marriage at these great Russian dating websites. So, are you ready to meet that special Russian girls for marriage. Do not wait. Take action now. Join these free Russian dating services and meet that other half of your dream.